Justin G. Bautista
Writer
September 07, 2012
Behold: Hands of Men and Women
Men are likely to have the uppermost hand than women when holding hands.

Researcher Mark S. Chapell and his pals took the burden to observe 15,008 couples with holding hand activities. It’s true, men has the uppermost hand. And it may be that men initiate the act of touch.

 

Touch has a power. In the study of Coan, Schaefer and Davidson,  a woman was given mild electric shocks to observe her experience of pain and fear through MRI. At first, pain and fear was prominent. When a laboratory team member held her hand, the pain is still evident but fear diminishes. When the woman’s partner held her hand, the MRI shows that her brain calmed down remarkably.

 

Holding a woman’s hand is simple, seemingly vain, but it’s an easy way to make her at ease amidst pain and stress. Plus, it’s a romantic gesture too.

 

A man to man holding hand would raise brows in many societies; but in Afghanistan, it is expected. It shows affection for the men without the sexual association. And in times that you didn’t do that, it shows aversion as if you’re spacing yourself away from the other man.

 

Holding hands is dirtier than you thought. Tennessee senators passed a new bill claiming that holding hands and kissing are gateways to intercourse. The bill, which blocks sex education, aims to reduce the tipping numbers of the young engaging the activity – 27% of middle school students in Memphis City have had sex.

 

Between the two genders, researchers from the University of Colorado found that women’s hands are dirtier! Women “have a much ‘greater diversity’ of bacteria on their hands than men, and a higher number of innate bacteria living under the skin that can’t be washed away”.

 

Do you agree with these findings?

 

  • http://homeboundglobal.com eliseblalock

    I think the person who usually has the upper hand is the taller one. When I hold my nephew’s hand, mine is on top. But when I hold my husband’s hand or someone’s hand at church, mine is on the bottom. I’m only 4’11″ so just about everyone is taller than me. ;)

  • http://unwalled.wordpress.com Kim

    Interesting post Justin……my husband and I hold hands often and his is usually the uppermost……….not surprised that women’s hands are dirtier because we tend to handle a wider diversity of tasks that expose us to a wider diversity of surfaces…….blog on :) ………shalom!…….Kim

  • http://pangirlbrit.wordpress.com pangirlbrit

    I don’t ever really have my hand held, but I’d love to. It shows me that people care. It helps me to feel like I can open up to more people, as I am someone who is not very social and I am shy most of the time and afraid to open up to people.

  • http://waldotomosky.wordpress.com Waldo “Wally” Tomosky

    First I must agree with Viveka. When I was a teen I had a job cleaning the concession stand of a drive-in theater; what a mess the women’s room was, enough said on that subject.
    Now on the main theme of this post; I often hold hands with myself. It is a bit narcissistic but quite calming. It never leads to sex and it keeps my peanut bowl free of others – - – well – - – you know! I must admit though, that I only do this behind my own back and while standing “At Ease” on the parade ground. I hope the sarge doesn’t catch me.

  • http://mygulitypleasures.wordpress.com viveka

    Women hands more dirty – I think that’s true – because we have to deal with more shit then men does, with shopping, handling small kids, dust and dirt around the house – dirty laundry. Also after years with dealing with travelling customers – ladies washrooms are always in a worst state then men’s – for some reason.
    They did a test in UK a couple of years ago – they tested a bowl of peanuts on a pub’s bar counter – mostly men eating from them it there was over 120 different urine sample in the nuts.

  • http://flyonthewalljamyd.wordpress.com faydanamyjake

    My husband and I only hold hands a certain way. Using the other hand feels all wrong and always has:) he does have the upper hand more to do with height and hand side IMO.

  • http://mrsmcindoe.wordpress.com mrsmcindoe

    Womens hands dirtier than mens – not suprising! I bet it is because there is, on average, a wider variety in their every day activity – for example, my husband goes to work in his office and stays there much of the day. I take a child to school, visit a supermarket, go to a toddler group, walk a dog, clean the house, do a bit of gardening etc.
    Lovely to ehar about the men of Afghanistan!

  • http://sedge808.wordpress.com sedge808

    Oh yeah, I’ll tell you something
    I think you’ll understand
    When I say that something
    I want to hold your hand
    I want to hold your hand
    I want to hold your hand

    Oh please say to me
    You’ll let me be your man
    And please say to me
    You’ll let me hold your hand
    You’ll let me hold your hand
    I want to hold your hand

    And when I touch you I feel happy inside
    It’s such a feeling that my love
    I can’t hide, I can’t hide, I can’t hide
    Yeah, you got that something
    I think you’ll understand

    When I say that something
    I want to hold your hand
    I want to hold your hand
    I want to hold your hand

    And when I touch you I feel happy inside
    It’s such a feeling that my love
    I can’t hide, I can’t hide, I can’t hide
    Yeah, you got that something
    I think you’ll understand

    When I feel that something
    I want to hold your hand
    I want to hold your hand
    I want to hold your hand
    I want to hold your hand

  • http://livingsimplyfree.wordpress.com livingsimplyfree

    The remark about holding hands leading to sex reminds me of why we have corn flakes and graham crackers. The inventors believed that plain boring foods would curb sex drives. Of course we know how well that worked out.

     

    I can see how holding hands helps to give strength during times of fear or pain, but how does not having sex education avoid the issue of children having sex?

  • http://bwthoughts.wordpress.com billgncs

    I have always enjoyed ice skating, the one exercise where holding hands is natural.

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